There are different interpretations to the term ‘family’. There is the biological meaning which refers to body ID’d kin. Supposedly this family is to be “it” for those who are Game oriented on Earth (I’m not getting into non-Earth versions). This version of family is the one that you are expected to count on, to rely on and to always stand by you. While this is very true in most body ID situations, it is an ideal that the Game wants you to be focused on. Hence: genealogy and the drive by Earther royalty (real and imagined) and Mormons tracing their lineage and conjuring up coats-of-arms. 

This is all very Game approved for obvious reasons, primarily that you are looking at the external, physical reasons for loyalty and conformity. What does the family expect of you in order for you to conform? Of course we all know of people with genuine, supportive and loving family situations of a body ID sort. We all have experiences in these families in many incarnations on our simultaneous path. 

Another usage of the word ‘family’ is by the gay/lesbian community. Referring to fellow same sexual orientation incarnates as ‘family’ has been around for quite some time now. When the biological family has rejected you for your orientation, like attracts like and you form close friendships that become a substitute ‘family’. Note, though, that this is still a body ID’d basis. Sexual orientation is a body issue and Game matter. While one may well find very supportive and loving friends based on sexual orientation, if it is only the orientation, the intent of ‘family’ will be revealed to be fleeting. 

Just like the English word ‘love’ which has an unusually large variety of interpretations, the same can be said of ‘family’. The word ‘love’ has been discussed in a previous segment. One then should examine these two words and ask why love and family are such important concepts that cause Earthers to be searching for them. 

You will discover your answers to these questions based on your level of Advancement. The Low and Mid levels find their needed love and family in traditional Game venues of breeding if they are heterosexual in orientation or with a partner of the same gender if they are homosexual in orientation. Once these levels find their Game based family, they feel that this is ‘it’ and the only way it should be. The mormons have taken this to radical levels by beLIEving in eternal breeding of bogus male and female spirits as being the peak of their heaven. 

Advanced levels are where the simultaneous incarnational path challenges the Game. Body ID versions of family are increasingly difficult for Advancing spirits to adhere to while they experiment with who they really are. Suddenly biological families strain when a member veers from traditional (Game) structures. Families who support you as long as you conform may now abandon you for being individualistic in approach to traditions. One of my aunts told me that you should remain in the religion of your family because it is your duty. Obey! Don’t challenge the system! Be a contented sheep…THEN we will love you. This is ALL body ID. Gay/lesbian versions of ‘family’ may undergo similar lack of conformity issues beyond one’s sexual orientation. It seems to be all about the body ID alone. If one identifies his/her place in society by sexual orientations alone, one is fully engaged in the Game’s rules and plans.

The Game allows for the sexual identity camps as they give valuable experiences for the incarnating Higher Selves. Hoping around from het to bi to gay all serves a great purpose for the spirit. This continues in various forms through the mid-Advanced levels. Body ID’d family issues abound, but the search gets restless in Very Advanced levels.

When one’s spirit has realized that the false plateau of the mid-Advanced levels is not the optimum, entry into Very Advanced levels begins. Traditional and body ID’d family circumstances start to prove lacking. The Very Advanced’s spiritual level has increased to such a vibration that one starts a search for people at a similar level to interact with. 

The very nature of the simultaneous path shows that we are surrounded by incarnations from very Low up through the rare Awakened Final. The Very Advanced find themselves being less than comfortable around those who are heavily into the Game. Those who are full swing into Game involvements may find it uncomfortable to be around someone who does not conform sufficiently to Game standards and family (read conformity units) expectations. These Very Advanced know that they cannot be untrue to their desires to spiraling out even if they are not yet consciously aware of this. They are driven by a desire to know more, to be more and to locate incarnations with similar drives. Loneliness in matters of the spirit takes up residence with you. 

Refer back to the segments Rejection and the Final Incarnation and Rejection and Very Advanced Incarnations. The rejection by the Game and heavily involved Game players is part of your refining fires. It is this rejection that causes you to search for those who won’t reject you. Yes, you will try to hide your true, unfolding self by appearing to pacify those around you who want you to conform. You try to keep your inner self hidden from these people because you do have feelings for them. After all, most of them are interacting with you based on many other incarnations even if they do not realize it.

However, your Higher Self will not allow this complacent deception to exist forever. Something will occur or someone will reveal a significant part of the real, hidden-from-view spiritual you. When this occurs, the Game players will become aware that you are not the person they believed you to be. Friends will prove to be fair weather. Biological family may act like you have become a traitor to the family. 

Any family member or friend who is not driven off by the real, Advancing you is more spirit driven. They may confess that they don’t agree with your path, but that they are still there for you. These are incarnations to treasure. They will learn from you and you will be able to assist them as much as their current incarnation permits.

Yet, others will find themselves shunned by family and former friends. This is especially valid with Final Incarnations during and after the Awakening process. You are labeled too weird, too different and to be avoided. This does happen to varying degrees with the Very Advanced levels. This is your individual refining fire. Fire hurts and causes tears. These are part of the spiraling out features. You are withdrawing from the Game – Graduation! As with all graduations, you leave people and places behind. On the brighter side, you are unlikely to graduate alone.

This brings the topic to your Graduation family. This is how ‘family’ takes on a non-body ID’d meaning and moves one back to the original family: the Higher Selves who chose to enter the Game together eons ago. You have been together from the first sequential incarnation. You made the leap of faith from the sequential path to the simultaneous path together. You continued your interaction in an amazing variety of experiences. Then the event called Graduation – successful conclusion to the 3rd density Game chosen – is upon you. It is time for you to rejoin your friends, your real ‘family’ on a FAR more powerful level than the physical could ever be: immortal vs. mortal. THIS is the family that you have been searching for.

It is this group of friends who will gather together in specific linear ‘time periods’ to experience Graduation together. The gathering of family involves incarnations all at the Very Advanced levels with one of those Higher Selves being the Awakened Final in that specific time period. This Awakened Final is able to link the others in final stages leading to Graduation. 

This does not mean ALL your Very Advanced incarnations, but rather a select two or three of them. Just as your Final Incarnation is composed of the efforts of three or four of your Higher Self’s Dominant Incarnations, so does Graduation involved three or so of your pre-Game ‘family’ Higher Selves.

With my situation as an example, I have Very Advanced incarnations of mine close to other Higher Selves’ Very Advanced incarnations plus another’s Awakened Final in two other linear time periods. This linkage is part of our Graduation spiral. Your Awakened Final Incarnation will also be engaged in such reunions if you are to Graduate along with the Earth Planetary Spirit. If you are not to Graduate by the time the Planetary Spirit does, you will continue the simultaneous experience on the next designated simultaneous path planet.

The rediscovery of your pre-Game family is one of the major events of your entire Game experience. This is most significant especially to the Higher Self’s Awakened Final. Signals flash and energies are put into motion. What transpires between these incarnations is tremendous and very energizing to those involved including new feelings, new experiences plus more to be discovered by those involved. 

Yes, von Bush, the aliens and the polarities are forcing the world to a sequentialized path. They will be left with a barren rock when the Planetary Graduation occurs. It will prove for naught. We who are to Graduate, meanwhile, move down unique paths and experiences that EndGame delivers.

This is a very heavy/complex segment, but there are those who need this knowledge Never forget that you are your Higher Self and all of your incarnations are energized by the same you. Your memories will be totally restored after Graduation. Trust in YOUR Higher Self.